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[freeletme]

April thanks for your advice so far but i am not going to buy your book, sorry. One last thing. I know you say act rather than speak to this girl but would you advice against me telling her how i feel about her?.

Thanks April.

[freeletme]

Yes you’re right about me not knowing my game. I am in two minds of what to do. I sort of want to act but i sort of dont if you understand what i mean. Do you think she is just after attention or does what i wrote indicate more than just attention seeking?. I mean i have backed off a bit and when i saw her after about a week of no contact she said she misses me. Its just that i feel confused by the signals shes been giving me.

I think eventually i will have to act to see if she really is interested.

[freeletme]

I’m going to speak to some of the girls that know her well and ask what they think. But if she were to leave her boyfriend for me does this mean she could do that to me in the future?.
Also i dont know what you will make of this, but two weeks ago i sent a flirty text to this girl and her boyfriend saw it and sent a text back saying that nothing is going to happen between me and his girlfriend and to just give up. This caused a massive row between this girl and her boyfriend. She told one of her friends about this and began crying saying that i shouldn’t be sending her texts like that. Her friend told me that maybe she isn’t interested because she got upset. But surely the fact that she gets upset is because she feels strongly about the situation and possbily me.
Before this happened the girls friend said that i should say that if things were different between her and her boyfriend that i would be interested.

I guess the only person who knows if they have feelings for me is this girl.

[freeletme]

I have asked her out already but she said her boyfriend wouldnt like that. Her boyfriend knows i did this because he’s seen her phone. He has actually text me saying leave her alone. This girl spoke to me about what her boyfriend said to me. She said that he goes over the top sometimes because he is over protective of her. But then she said that she was actually thinking about coming out with me and not telling her boyfriend because of the way he is. It seems like she does like me but also likes her boyfriend but he seems to be overly jealous. Its not just me that he acts like this to.

[freeletme]

Thanks for the reply, but what do i do now?. Do i talk to her about this or sit back and wait to see what happens?

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