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[quote=”April Masini”]There’s nothing to be confused about, and this has nothing to do with this woman being older. She has a boyfriend who is her number one guy. She doesn’t want him to know about you, but she doesn’t want to give you up. She will continue to see you on the side as long as you’re game.

I know you want her friendship, but she isn’t offering you real friendship. She’s offering you a relationship on the side, and that’s it. A real friendship would involve her telling her boyfriend about you and inviting you to do things with the two of them, as well as others in a group.

So, you have to decide if you want to be the guy on the side or to move on and find someone who wants you all to herself all the time, and vice verse.[/quote]

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Re: Some advice-older woman

The previous post was me and I forgot to log on.
I have two last things that I want to get your opinion on. The first one is the continuation of the main topic and second is based on another issue.
1.Well I do recall last week she told me prior to us having our first sexual encounter her and her boyfriend were trying to work things out. Then she hit me with the bombshell that they got back together. As I stated before she wanted to spend time with me the whole weekend. I tried to make an attempt to have sex but she stopped me even though she really wanted to. She said she didn’t want to feel guilty. Her boyfriend is here now visiting and of course she hasn’t hit me up nor have I hit her up. I know once he leaves she will call me but I probably will not respond. So what do you think?

2.One thing I do believe I made a mistake was when I tried to contact her after her response in a text. It basically went like this: I told her I was coming by a few nights ago. She then hit me up a couple times wondering when I was coming.Then at the last minute I told her that I couldn’t make it. She had taken what I said the wrong way and seemed like she was upset and replied back saying bye. I figured she was trying to cut ties with me so I hit her back a several times to let her know she took what I said the wrong way. She didn’t respond because she fell asleep but the following day she replied back asking me why I sent the messages I sent. Even though the messages was explaining to her that she took things the wrong way and wishing her luck on something that was important to her. She initially didn’t want to talk but ended up calling me anyway. Do you think I was in the wrong? If so, do you suggests that I fall waaay back now? Thanks

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