Hello again,
This lovely 22 year old BOY basically said he just wants to be friends after ignoring me for days. All I asked him for was to help me make sense of things, considering that just a week ago we had spent the weekend together like everything was good after he called me drunk telling me he was strayed and I went and got him and his friend and let them eat sleep and hangout at my place. He said it didn’t work because I used him as a rebound and had sex with him too soon and that we should have been friends first in order to date. Fine. I let him know how I am confused as to why he suddenly changed his decision after everything and he didnt have much to say, I feel like he was just saying something just to get me to shut up, so I told him that I understand he doesnt care and that I’m not going to say what I need to say because I am a better person than that..I told him he’s an a-hole and that he will learn. He basically just laughed in my face and said bye. I am infuriated that he is acting like a little child and that I’m letting it affect me..I’m hurt and feel dumb for dealing with this. It’s really making me think that I clearly jumped into this way too fast, I wouldn’t call him a rebound because I geniunely liked this kid, but it really makes me think about how I should have tried and given my ex a chance to make things right. To this day, we still talk, and although I’m definitely not ready to try again after getting hurt by this other guy, I know I didnt have the connection with this new guy like I had with my ex. How is he totally okay with his actions? How can I snap out of this and move on? Should I just leave this to karma?
