So i just told him that I didnt want to waste my time, and that if he just wanted to take me out to say thank you that he shouldnt bother.
Since then our relationship has obviously been strained. I have been rather mean to him at work. I think I was just really excited about our date so thats why I took it so hard and reacted so negatively. We haven’t texted in a couple of weeks but at work he still looks at me like he likes me. he still initiates contact, his body langauge shows that he likes me, and a friend of mine says that he talks about me (in a nice way) when Im not around. But he hasnt texted me.
Im really shy and Im always really self conscious about seeming like a crazy obsessed girl. I initiated a few texts like 2 weeks ago but didnt get much in return. I know he could be busy and what not and therefore not able to carry on conversation. But he hasnt initiated any texting conversations. Im thinking of just giving in and texting him and saying “I miss seeing your name in my inbox, can we be friends again?” but Im not sure if this will come off as too needy.
In your opinion, is it worth pursuing this guy? I like him, but does it seem like he is a lost cause? Does he not have feelings for me because he isnt initiating text conversations? or did I just scare him off by being too mean? Any advice is welcomed!! Thank you!
