jenlee

[jenlee]

Your right!!! i will definitely sit back, and see what happens. and i agree on keeping busy i wasnt for the other day. lol thanks again!!!! 😀

[jenlee]

personally if u dont mind me saying.it seems like he’s unhappy from his past, and is taking it out on you. which is making you unhappy. any relationship where either is unhappy is noooo good, especially if hes not going to try to fix this problem. and you are just going to make your kids unhappy by staying with someone that makes u unhappy. and im sure you dont want that for your kids. they will grow up thinking it is ok to put others down and accuse people for no reason, like he is doing to you. soooo please rethink if this is what you want. to be unhappy for the rest of your life and have your kids react this way when they get older? or find someone who will treat you the way you treat them? with respect. cause personally hes not respecting you by going through your phone at all.

[jenlee]

if u dont mind me saying. i think you should tell her that you would like to just stay friends and only friends. she is giving you the run around and that is not fair to you or her boyfriend. what are you going to do if she does get married to him? your going to be pretty hurt that you waisted all your time on her, when you could of been looking some where else. if she really cared about you, she would get rid of him and find a way to be with you. i hate to say it, but it sounds like she is just using you. i know it is going to be hard. but maybe the two of you should take a brake as friends, so that your feelings for wanting to be with her will fade. good luck

[jenlee]

well im deff not april and cant give the best advice that she gives. but i will say that one of my girlfriends boyfriend kept saying he was loosing $ all the time. and she couldnt figure out where it kept going. finally out of know where he proposed to her. and that explained everything. and if thats not the case maybe you asking him is making him feel like its a job for him to get u a ring, instead of him enjoying getting u one. maybe he wants it to be a complete surprise, but ur asking, is making it harder for him to surprise you. so just hold tight and let it happen.

[jenlee]

lol, ok i will sit back and flirt just a little. thank u both very much. i really do enjoy this website. so thank u for making it, and helping us with our problems. i plan to tell a lot of people about this website. 😀

[jenlee]

i will take the whole online thing into consideration. thank u sooooo much, u have been a great help. 😀

[jenlee]

did u ask him where he was and why his phone was off? you should ask him before jumping the gun and getting worried. cause he might be nothing. which means your stressing your self out for no reason.

[jenlee]

thank u sooo much for your advice. and u are right on the fact that i dont want to be a alone. i am a single mother who does not get out much. and i am very afraid to be alone for the rest of my life. but i did get rid of him. he seemed fine with it. but if u dont mind i would like to ask u another question. my girlfriend is trying to tell me that this relationship did not work because of me. she thinks that because i still chatted with other male friends on facebook, that that made him think i didnt care. but i dont see how, seeing how the conversations were harmless?? plus i dont believe in getting rid of my guy friends for a boyfriend. plus she is trying to tell me that i am acting desperate by talking to other guys while i have a boyfriend, because i enjoy there company and i enjoy the attention i get. but they are just friends and i dont see the harm in enjoying compliments from others. its not like i am falling for them or cheating. just chatn about every day events. can u please tell me if you think she is right and if i am wrong at all??? and thank u again for taking the time to chat with me and giving me advice. 😀

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