JillianK

[JillianK]

Yes, thank you! I will definitely give it a try. I can see it not working because of how far its gotten already and he will probably see it as another excuse… But I really hope it will work! I wish I would have had this advice from the beginning!

[JillianK]

We are both 20, used to have sex pretty much everyday we were together. Now its maybe every second day… maybe 2 days in between. It changed when we moved in together, because I started school so I am more stressed, and then when he started getting more angry about it, it makes me want to less and he doesnt understand that. We have been dating for almost 2 and a half years. I say no maybe 2 times a week because I am studying, or I just am not in the mood, and any other time we dont it is because he is tired and just goes to bed… which I never get angry about.

[JillianK]

I dont know if other people are supposed to reply here, but I dont agree with this responce. Sex isnt everything, and there could be a handful of things he is insecure about, and he will open up in time. Like for instance maybe he is religious, or is a virgin, or is afraid cause your are older, there are tons of reasons. It is actually a good thing that you have discovered that you have trouble communicating before having sex. Just let him know that you know he must have a good reason and you are there to talk when he is ready. Sex is great, but it complicates things, especially when someone isnt ready. If he loves you, be greatful you dont have a douchebag who only wants sex. Just be patient 🙂

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