I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now. We recently even moved in after dating for about a year. It was all great in the start and only recently when he moved jobs he starting been very short tempered and we would have arguments every night and he would be so tired and stressed so he would say lets talk some other time. Then recently he switched jobs again and moved to another city so now we see each other only on the weekends but he’s been very sketchy lately he hides his phone and deletes messages that he says were for his sister. Regardless he said I was always causing trouble and whenever I checked his phone I would find something to upset myself and he just doesn’t have time for that anymore. Again recently I caught him talking to some lady he claims was way older than him and that he only called her to ask her advice about me. I told him I don’t want him talking to her anymore and he said he wouldn’t and deleted her number. Then I checked his emails and I found that in his sent folder he inquired about a private party and the messages were back and forth with some person and he confirmed he would attend the party and the person said bring your own condoms and booze and when I questioned him about this he just denied it completely by saying it was personalized spam. I don’t even know if I should believe him or my gutt feeling that something is definately not right here. Then just a week ago he said he wants space and that he doesn’t want to be obligated to reply and call me at every hour cause of my suspicions.
thank you 🙂
