Stacey,
Sometimes, the people to whom we are most attracted are the worst people for us. These relationships often are toxic, with pain on both sides. I believe the time is for soul searching. The following questions might be good for you to consider (don’t worry, I don’t need answers). Why are you so attracted to Kyle? Do you believe you could have a long-lasting relationship without the ups and downs? Do you enjoy the pattern of breaking up and then rekindling your feelings? Some people want people who will put us down or hurt us. I am not saying that that is the case with Kyle. Only you know how things are between you and Kyle. And, maybe you enjoy the inconsistencies of your relationship with Kyle. So, my advice is to figure out why you have gone through what you have with Kyle, and then decide where to go from there.
Best of luck with finding the best solution for yourself!
