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Thanks for the advice….it’s just so haunting that we had no closure conversation. I didn’t think he was like that and I hate to feel like things were left on such a bad note….”text note” that is. I don’t know how I will react if I see him around and hate to feel uncomfortable. I have always been able to conclude relationships with honor and respect for the other person with at least a conversation. It stings.

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Hi,
It sounds to me like he is not interested in a real relationship with you. This guy hurt you in the past and unless he’s calling you and making an attempt to connect with you I would let it go. I know how it feels when someone you love doesn’t love you back the same way. Sounds like you feel good about yourself now and are looking for a real relationship. Focus on that…finding someone who also wants that with you. Don’t settle for anything less. Don’t get depressed. When a man wants to be with you, you’ll never have to ask…he’ll be there!

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I don’t think you ever got past your wife cheating on you. There is a saying, “I can forgive but never forget.” I don’t know how many people can truly forgive infedility deep in their hearts. I once tried to get back together with a man who cheated but the relationship was never the same. I couldn’t forget. I don’t know what to write except that when two people truly love eachother, they would never do something that may hurt the other. Now you have this other woman added to the mix who you are mad at because she lied to you. If I were you I would take inventory of which woman you truly love. It’s selfish to expect the other woman to be there and not find a true happy relationship of her own. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. If you still want to stay with your wife then perhaps you should focus on that relationship to make things better with her. Maybe you should have that uncomfortable conversation with her about how you truly feel about her and the relationship.

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