A lot of people bring up the baby thing. He already knows he can’t have kids. She knows that too. She’s choosing to give up on having kids to be with him. Which sucks. I want kids one day and I’d be listed beyond belief if I were giving that up to be with a dude who turned out to be gay the whole time.
Also, I haven’t slept with him since he told me they were engaged and I’ve only talked to him over the phone a few times since. I’m dating and moving on. And we were dating, but he wasn’t my boyfriend. It was never official. He did not brake up with me.
If I’m sympathetic to his side of it only because its not easy coming out. I know what year it is but not only are we in Texas. I’ve had friends who have family tell them to fake it, or that they’d rather they be dead than gay. But I also know what’s right. I came out for the same reason. I got tired of family asking to get married and pushing girls on me. I knew I’d be unfaithful. So I came out. And pretty much everyone stopped talking to me for a few years. But things are fine now. Luckily any girlfriends I had were in the past because i stopped dating all togeer and I never took a girl home. My first girlfriend is actually married to one of my cousins now but very few people even knew she was my girlfriend.
Maybe I don’t want to think of him as such a bad person because I can put myself on both sides. That’s why I’m having a hard time though. I don’t want to out him in the process.
Is April Masini the askapril April? Ask questions, don’t just make up details. It’s very high school.
