Lynette59

[Lynette59]

I agree with Jeremy! I also think you care for her because she’s your cousin only! Other people are making you question yourself. Say no way to your cousin!

[Lynette59]

Don’t do it! What if you fell for her and there you are in a sticky situation and worse if you don’t then your intentions are to use her “she is a mother” if you want a friend with benefits then find a current friend for that or go find someone obviously only looking for that too but without kids.

[Lynette59]

She could be leading you on in sake that she keep her job and a little extra, be careful! Also you need to decide between relationship or business. They just don’t mix in a new relationship. If she cares about your relationship even on a friend level then she will respect your decision. If its meant to be she will not stay away for long “even without her job”
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[Lynette59]

You’re letting her run things! Bottom line, if you want to be her man act like the man. She needs a guy who knows he doesn’t need to wait around for anyone “this will make her think… Hmm he must have something to offer” confidence in a man is attractive. Don’t wait for her to make plans last minute, make your own plans, unless it is agreed your doing something together well in advance. Also why does she do the driving and picking up “you’ll definately lose points for this on”

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