Boomersooner1

[Boomersooner1]

So about a month ago, I started hangin out with a
girl from high school. We would go to the lake, go
out to dinner, and she even slept in my bed a
couple times but we have never done anything, not
even kiss. We would talk every day and I began to
feel like we were dating and this had a chance to go
somewhere. After a month of hangin out a lot and
talking every day, I was around her best friend one
day. I decided to ask her friend what she thought
about me, cause I figured her best friend would
know. Well she said that she just wanted to be
friends and enjoyed hanging out with me. I was
pretty upset because I really liked the girl, but
accepted the fact and figured we could just be good
friends. Well the next day we had pool plans, she
ditched me, and nothing has been the same since.
That was two weeks ago and we havent hung out
once since then and she doesnt text me anymore
and barely talks to me. I guess her friend told her
what I asked and I dunno what the deal is. Well I
would really like to have a friendship with her still
and we have a vacation already planned a couple
months away. What do I need to do to fix this and
have a good friendship with her. I dont want things
to be awkward, I am perfectly fine with just being
friends. How do I go about fixing this and
establishing a good friendship with her?

[Boomersooner1]

Well I mean how am I supposed to ask her if she didnt respond to my text message??

[Boomersooner1]

Well things have went well, until now lol. So I went over a 2nd time when she was outside, talked to her a bit, and said we should go walk our dogs the next day, because she said she wasnt busy. So that day came along and she wasnt home, So I walked my dogs by myself and when I got back home she was outside her house. So I went over to talk to her for a 3rd time, asked if she wanted to go for a walk, she had to do her sisters hair, but I asked for her number and she gave it to me. I text her so she would have my number and told her I would let her go since she was busy and to text me whenever. Well that was two days ago, and I havent heard from her, So i text her today saying “Hey whats up?” and that was almost 3 hours ago and she hasnt responded. If she doesnt respond, which I dont think she is, What should I do now? Is she not interested or what? I dont know if I need to back off a bit and leave her alone for awhile or what? So what do you think should be my next move? Thanks for any help, I appreciate it.

[Boomersooner1]

Well I finally met my neighbor lol. And it went really well, we had a nice conversation and ended up talkin about our dogs and she mentioned we should take them for a walk some time. Should I just wait till I see her outside next and ask when are we gonna go for that walk? Or next time I take my dogs for a walk should I just go knock on her door? The thing is I never know when she is home and she does live with her uncle and grandma, who I have never met. So I dont want to feel akward knockin on their door and she isnt home lol. What do ya think should be my next move??

[Boomersooner1]

Well I went in today and she came and talked to me for about 5-10 minutes and it was going well so I asked if she would like to go to dinner some time and she was like ” Welllllll I have a boyfriend” and I guess she has been with him for 2 years now. But she seemed interested and I thought for sure she would say yes. Anything I should do now or just move on?? Cause I do go eat there sometimes with my co workers.

[Boomersooner1]

Well last Thursday I finally got enough courage to go in to the restaurant at lunch by myself and see what happens. And it actually went pretty well I think. I talked to her a couple times and she came and talked to me once. Which went good and is more than all of the previous times I have been in the restaurant combined. I left the place on a good note by leaving a good tip, told her to have a good weekend, and she was smiling as I left the place. So now I was curious, When should I go back? Should I go back this Thursday, which would be one week later, or give it some more time in between and go next week? And once I do go back, should I just keep building more conversation with her and wait to ask her for her number, Or should I ask her for her number soon?? Also, what would be the best way to ask her for her number??

[Boomersooner1]

That worked perfectly lol. Thanks a lot.

[Boomersooner1]

Well I asked if she wanted to go to the baseball game and she asked when and mentioned how hot it has been. I told her its like 2 weeks away and I said I could get seats in the shade so it wouldnt be as hot. She said that would be fun. Then I said if its too hot right now we could do something else like go to dinner or out for drinks if she wants too. She then said, Are you askin me on a date? And I said Yeah you could say that. She then said well we will figure it out then. I said ok sounds good.

So now what should I do? Is that pretty much a no?

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