i think what you have to do is ask yourself do you love him? if you do are you willing to do something as a sacrifice for that love? if he is not changing who you are internally them he is not trying make you something your not. but most importantly you have to be comfortable in that change. would you be willing to do it. if your not comfortable in doing it i wouldnt. also ask yourself would he be willing to change something that was on the outside of his body. like for an example ask him if you got your nipples pierced would he be willing to get his dick pierced.(itdoesnt matter whether you do or dont want him to do it), but if he is willing to do that for you. if he is not really willing to do it cause he doesnt know he would be comfortable doing it but would be willing to do it for you to make you happy then i say do it. but if he is not then why should you? it is about give and take. if you do decide to do it and dont like it and for some reason do break up, you can always take them out. it is not like its a tattoo that more or less is permenant. plus ask him if you do decide to do it he knows they cant be messed with for quite sometime due to the healing proccess. it is your body so if you love him enough to do it and he is willing to do the same then the give and take aspect is in balance. just stay true to yourself no matter what. i dont know if i was helpful. im not very good with words so i hope you can decifer what i was trying to say!
