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Participanti am sorry april i am not monopolizing ur time sorry if u think that way.i will followur advice and confront her and say it to her .but the only thing i am afraid of is she might hurt herself and cant handle it so i am asking for ur help.sorry if am being such a problem for ya and thanks a lot for ur help.its been really really helpful and guiding force. mubbuus
Participantplease help april mubbuus
Participantfirst of all thank you april .ur help is making life really liveable.
yes i too agree with u in finishing this relationship cause this is creating so many problems for both of us and ruining our lifes and our studies.but when i tell her this and explain it to her about the problems we will face and we r facing she just says how can u leave me brother.and starts crying and says i knew it whenever this thing would come in open u would leave me .and starts scolding me of being someone who used her in his free time and now leaving her cause its creating problems.
wat should i do how should i convince her .if i say anything about finishing this relationship she starts crying and says fine u wanna finish this lets finish this but understand one thing i cant stay like this under constant bullying and scoldings from my family i will just run away anyways u dont care about me.
wat should i do then april how should i convince her how should i make her realise this relationship is gonna create problems for us all along.?
and then she starts blaming me for ruining her life and her image in front of her family and then tells me u have done all this and u leaving so calmly ?
wat should i do april .?
is finishing this relationship the only way out?she says she can never leave me she likes me soooo much she wants me to be with her all her life.she even has plans of how we gonna meet and introduce our life partners to each other after we get married separately to different people.wat should i do april?tell me ?mubbuus
Participantplease help us april u gonna save two lives here mubbuus
Participantwhat should i do.we two are unable to comprehend why are we doing this i mean why are we keeping our relationship despite all these problems.why arent we letting it go?
we are getting doubts are we really a brother sister or something else.?
and if so then even then why are we still thinking of being together at the cost of our lives our families their happiness,their pride and their respect in the society.
how can we decide and know for sure if we really are a brother and sister?
we are even imagining leaving our families and staying together.i mean how can we imagine leaving someone who has raised us and made us this big just for the sake of us?
we hug each other we kiss.we have even smooched each other cause she wanted to know how its done how it feels.but after that we felt really shitty we felt a bro and sis can never do such a thing.but again we r back being a bro and sis.i mean how can this happen.
her family members think i had sex with her in her room but i never did if their was something like that we would have even done that wouldnt we?
please help us april help us realize what our relationship truly is.wat should be done of our relationship?mubbuus
Participantthank you for ur words but the thing is the girl whom i am talking about is my bothers sister in law.and their family knows really well about my family.both our fathers(her and my father)are childhood friends.
but now after i was caught with her they r thinking i had sex with her and now they r talking of getting her married.(we live in india).
if her family says anything about this to my family my life will be over. my whole family is gonna treat me like a piece of shit . earlier too they objected to us being together as brother sister and asked us not to meet or call but we did it secretly and now its back in public .
i am unable to think of anything .if my family knows they gonna kill me for sure.im unable to concentrate on anything.feel like i am unable to breathe.the walls r getting closer on me .my sister too is feeling the pain. i myself am i doctor but i am unable to think anything.
what should i do ?how should i react ?how should i convince them we didnt have sex?how will i convince my parents ?my mother has had a heart attack earlier .wat should i do?im totally blank .feeling as if it would be better if i get hit by a truck.rather than staying .mubbuus
Participantplease help me april or anyone i feel like ending my life.feel like its not worth it anymore.feel like i have disgraced everyone. -
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