Your friend wants to have sex with you, when it’s convenient for him, and that’s it. You will never get a commitment from him. Just sex. When he wants it. [i]I knew that after the first couple of times, his friends just left him for me to deal with on Saturday, did they set us up, or was I just stupid again?
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In answer to your question at the bottom of your post, no, you do not have a right to confront him. He hasn’t done anything wrong. You turned the tables, and pursued him, as if you were a guy. You went home with him and slept with him, then left at 7 a.m. He’s now got all the power, because he’s become the girl in the relationship and you want him more than he wants you. He holds all the cards, and can get what he wants from you. Which in this case, is just sex. He’ll text you, call you, or flirt with you and act like you’re together when he wants sex, but as soon as he gets it, he’ll be focused on himself again. [i] Yeah, you’re probably right, he does have the power. This isn’t an excuse, but I still live at home and have a nosy mother who wants to know what I am doing.
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Try not to pretend that his texts, e-mails, calls and flirting are genuine tokens of affection. They’re not. They’re just tools he uses to get sex from you. So, don’t trick yourself into thinking something is going on that isn’t. That should alleviate a lot of your confusion. [i]Nah, I knew he was manipulating me, he has done it before and I let him get by with it.
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You don’t need to “break it off” because there is nothing to break off. Just ignore him. That’ll give you your freedom! 🙂 [i] I never thought of it that way, so I really am a free woman, if I talked to other guys that I liked, I felt bad like I was cheating somehow.[/i]
I would, however, caution you against taking the male role in relationships any more. Stop asking men out on dates. If you don’t, you’re going to continually find yourself in this kind of situation over and over again. Break this pattern, and you be the girl for a change! 🙂 [i]I know, but then I would never get dates…[/i]
