optimistvik

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its you who should take a firm decision to make the life go in the way you desire to go. i really wonder why you still end up with the same girl who have run away from you for many times.

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I think in spite of her state she still remembers that she has done a mistake and was feeling sorry for that. so give her time. 😐

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I think you can give this issue more time, try to relax and take a decision in clear mindset. you have told you love him very much, so give time.

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hi, dont try to be judgmental of his actions in the bedroom, it may give him a unsecure feeling about his behavior.

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It will be always difficult to forget someone whom we like very much. try finding someone else but always keep in mind not to compare him with your friend.

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hi , try to reconnect with your friends first it will clear many things in your mind and will relax you.

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I have a feel that she is worried that you will leave her and go to your children so she is very firm in her decision as she knows very well that it is not possible for your children to come and ask apology from her.
first assure her that she comes first in your life. and that she is very important no matter what happens.

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i too feel it best to call her and talk directly rather than confusing yourself with her text..

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yes, this needs to be handled carefully, your boy friend loves you and same way he couldnt get away from his friend and he is also struggling the way you do. just speak and try to make him understand. as april said you can offer some gifts or surprise him.

wish you the best

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[quote=”wacki 0335″]I believe it is both. I know that is a cop out. I think destiny put people in your life/path and you choose which one you want to spend your life with. I don’t believe you have only one soul mate.[/quote]

I agree with you wacki, i do believe in both

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between this destiny or choice – i go with both, we can have lot of choices, when you have choice to select have to be careful since its life accounts.

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Yes he is a big loser 😀

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I think you should not talk to him now coz this is a one side love or infatuation so better don’t waste your time & find someone who is really made for you.

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I think you should not your time on her she is cheating you well she is loyal to anyone she should be with you but she is going out with your friend & may be after sometime she will ditch your friend too so be calm & find the girl who is really meant for you .
remember god is there.

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Yeah i agree with you
this is a good suggestion to date other women

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