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ParticipantHows it going bro.? I do understand the struggle you’re going through and I believe things will get better if you focus on what really important in your life. I’m not hear to blame you about what you went through and still going through, but you need to realize that you have a life to live and it might be time to move on. Some of the mistakes that most men make is not expressing their true feeling to a girl they are in love with. You said you guys were just friends and you never tell her that you wanted more than just friendship. A woman wants you tell her what you want her to be when you first meet her. Always tell them whether you want to be friends or you are looking for more than just friendship that way it’s up to her to accept it as friendship or more than friendship.
I don’t want this ruin your life and future because you have a bigger, better future ahead of you. She rejected you and that shouldn’t be sign that she doesn’t like but because you started with her as friends and you never make clear what is it that you wanted from her. It’s painful to love someone but don’t get same in return. My friend my interpretation of rejection is, maybe this isn’t the person that God wants you to establish a relationship with, and there maybe someone out there who will love you and appreciate you the most. Please don’t waste all your energy, time, and effort falling in love with some who is not even around anymore.
My advice to you is to focus what really important to you such as your goals, dreams and aspirations. When you have a vision, you will be motivated and focus on what really important. I’m not saying having a girlfriend is not important, but at this time of your life, you need to focus your gifts and talents and everything else will follow.
Women love guys who are going after a dream and focus.
Instead of being depressed over this issue, find some of your friends, the people you respect and trust and just go out and have some fun. Associate with the outside world a bit and leave the house for some refreshment.
Have fun with your life and don’t let anyone hold you back. You make you happy not others. Meditation can help you stay focus as well and also calm you because it works for me. Hope this will help and remember never give up.womenknowledge
ParticipantThis is a difficult situation when mistrust is involved, but it’s impossible to be resolved. I want you to have the confidence that this man response to you in a positive way, but if you keep thinking about the past and not trusting your instinct, then you will not take first step. We all make mistake and sometimes in our life face some kind health crisis whether it’s mental or physical. Hope you get well soon and get back to the man that loves you. He been skeptical because of the past but don’t give up on him yet once he gets the fact things will eventually lighten up. Relationship is a two way street you both have to work together.
My advice to you is don’t entirely depend on him for your happiness because happiness come from within. What you need to do is get advice from people who you trust and respect about your situation. Don’t since send the x ray yet and just relax a bit. Don’t send or text message. These form communications aren’t effective when it comes relationship building. What you need do is write him a personal letter from the heart and don’t try to convince. Let it just flow about how you feel and your illness update. I hope I was able to give you a good advice. God bless:}womenknowledge
ParticipantWow! I don’t know you but if this was in my case, I will to have make decision here what is and who is it I want. I don’t want to criticize because I don’t know your situation and you but it seems kind of like confusion going like to you said. Ok my friend first of all, the other woman MD is married and the husband is sick but she wants to date you at the same time. So ask yourself, kind of love can she possibly be in with you? If the husband dies and we don’t want that happens and she decided to marry you and you get sick don’t you think she could do the same thing to you? So you have question her about what she want. If you are honest call for a meeting between your and tell her to give each other space so she can look after her husband health because that’s what really important right now and see what she has to say from a moral view point. You must also make up your mind wish one of the women you really love or date both to decide who you connect with the best. For CD, you also have to question her motive. If she really in love with you while would she want to revenge by date someone else? You and her haven’t start any serious relationship yet and she already satisfacts her needs by going out with somebody. Do you think she can keep real a relationship when things get heat up? Real is patient and not rush. She seems to be rushing into a relationship with and you don’t want that. It’s a though decision to make but you have ask yourself what really important you and kind person you want in your life. Hope this will help you in your decision making process. womenknowledge
ParticipantIt’s sometimes the case when two people are in love but, hesitate to say how he or she feels. One of the reason for this is the fear of rejection. In our society today trying to talk to opposite sex is not what it used to be. We have become isolated in expressing our feeling. My advice to you is to write this man a personal letter, not email letter is much personal. Expressing your feeling to him with confidence and believe. I think he will be proud to read your letter and eventually open up. One thing you can do is to figure out is what both of have in common. Commonality is very important because you have something you can share and enjoy. Playing the mind or guessing game will not solve your problem, just my advice haha;} You can do it and let me know. Wish you all the best. womenknowledge
ParticipantWell I think I can give you some advice. You guys been to together for a while and what be the ultimate reason to split? Your have a child together and you said your love each still right? My advice is to sit down discuss the root cause of your unhappiness. It should be a quiet place where you both can focus on good results and not blaming. You said he lied to you before don’t you think this one of the reason of your unhappiness in this relationship? In a relationship often time when other person is not happy this can also cause friction and anger. Communication is one of the reasons why many relationship fail and you guys don’t want that.
You also talk to people your trust and respect that will give good advice. In order for relationship to work both must work together deligently. It’s a two way street my friend. You must focus on the reason why you felt in love with this guy and he should do the same as well this way you are focusing on the bigger picture in instead of the little things. Everyone has relationship problem , but it depends how you handle your problem. Focus on the solution and not just the problem because your subconscious mind will move in the direction in you want it. Break up or work together for your love and the child your have together? Hope this will help you.womenknowledge
ParticipantHi my name’s prince and I’m new member on here. Relationship as you know is a two ways street. When you’re in a relationship it all about negotiation and not just about one person. It has be a win-win situation. The kind language you use is very important how your partner will response to your need. One of the mistake people make is getting their family and friends involve when seeking advice on relationship you don’t want to do that, but only if the advice you’re getting will benefit you in solving your problem. Communication is also important between your and your partner. Instead of first talking to friends and families for assistant, you have sit have a normal conversation about where this relationship is heading. Be relax and no blaming each. Don’t focus on too of the wrong things but also focus on the things that are also positive in your relationship. You need to ask him what is that he really want and see if you can meet that need. Making time for discussion and negotiation will ease lots of the tension you guys are facing right now. Do not be attached to each. “Attachment will make the person feel like relationship prison” have fun when together and even apart. You have respect each pace at which to carry on this relationship because everyone has different personality.
Make quite time for problem solving and watch your partner will start to losing up a bit.
Well hope this will help you in some way.womenknowledge
ParticipantHi my name’s prince and I’m new member on here. Relationship as you know is a two ways street. When you’re in a relationship it all about negotiation and not just about one person. It has be a win-win situation. The kind language you use is very important how your partner will response to your need. One of the mistake people make is getting their family and friends involve when seeking advice on relationship you don’t want to do that, but only if the advice you’re getting will benefit you in solving your problem. Communication is also important between your and your partner. Instead of first talking to friends and families for assistant, you have sit have a normal conversation about where this relationship is heading. Be relax and no blaming each. Don’t focus on too of the wrong things but also focus on the things that are also positive in your relationship. You need to ask him what is that he really want and see if you can meet that need. Making time for discussion and negotiation will ease lots of the tension you guys are facing right now. Do not be attached to each. “Attachment will make the person feel like relationship prison” have fun when together and even apart. You have respect each pace at which to carry on this relationship because everyone has different personality.
Make quite time for problem solving and watch your partner will start to losing up a bit.
Well hope this will help you in some way. -
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