i recently went threw a similar ordeal when my fiance and i were fighting about wedding drama, house stuff, money, etc. and i second guessed our future and my “in love” for/with him…well apparently he felt the same and called off the wedding and our relationship. i didnt communicate with him how i was feeling and he didnt either we both (later in conversation we found out) agreed that we at the time things were going downhill just kinda ignored it thinking it would pass that we were just stressed…and now hes not sure if he want to be with me agin…..UGH. dont let this happen to you. please. its the most hurtful thing ive ever experienced…what we needed and its clearly to late to do this for me now was to change things up a bit, spice things up. when he gets back make a special dinner, candles, romantic. have a great night, enjoy his company no talking about ur stressed and problems. i know its hard for us women to put away our checklists and just let things be for a min but trust me it will change everything. then a couple days later make another more chilled not so “lets get it on” dinner and (i dont know if you eat toether or do the dinner in front of the TV thing) but suggest u eat at the table or something and practically discuss with him where you want him to help out rather than “Bitching” at him. tell him what you need. hell probly respond well. good luck! keep your man if hes a good one…all couples go threw this its good your catching it before you end up like me. 🙁
