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I like 3 girls, I don’t know what to do.

I go to a college where I like 2 girls. I work at another college where I like another girl. I like all 3 equally and I think about them equally. I can’t decide which one I should make a move on or which one I feel stronger for. The college that I go to is a community college so their from the area and would be easier to date without long distance. The college that I work at is a four year university where she might be from further away and during breaks we might be apart for a while. But, since I’m technically not allowed to date any of the students (which won’t stop me) it would be so fun having a secret relationship. At least these girls do know of my existence. The point is I really like these 3 girls and I have no idea how to approach this. What should I do about this?

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I understand that but I would still like a professinal opinion on this topic.

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Should you look for a date or wait?

When I have free time I like to go out where there’s woman my age. I’m trying to put myself in a position for an oppurtunity to meet someone. Cause I know that a girl won’t appear if I just hang out at the house all the time. Some people say you should wait and not look for a date cause love always comes when your not looking for it. Or every woman you meet will be a defect and you should let her fall into your lap. I disagree with that logic and you should put forth the effert (with out looking deperate off course). This topic goes either way with peoples beliefs. So as a relationship expert what are your thoughts on this topic? Agree with looking, waiting, or both?

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are there girls that like quiet men?

I wouldn’t say I’m shy or have a lack of confidence but I’m quiet. I don’t know what to say or talk about. I was never any good at socializing. Will this hurt me when being in a relationship? Will I get better when I’m in a relationship? Are there girls that like quiet men or will I struggle to find a date?

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How do you ask out a girl you don’t know?

Every girl I know has a boyfriend or turned me down. So I have to ask out some random girl. I’m straight forward and I just ask them out on a date. Is that to aggressive or does it depend on the girl? How do girls feel when some guy they’ve never met randomly appears and shows interest in her? What is the best way to do this?

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If a girl smiles at you, does that mean you can go ahead and talk to her, does it mean she likes you, or is she just being friendly and courteous?

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