shalie

[shalie]

Thank you for your advice. Another experienced person also told me to cut any contact with the guy and you are now confirming the best thing to do.
He will maybe use his introversion and shyness as excuse but I really think that I am better off without him
I am just wondering why some guys continue to date girls even though they are not really interested in them… Do they just do it because they have nothing to do or maybe because they can’t find anyone else?
I think that it is a very unfair thing to do because when you date someone for a few months the person gets the message that you actually like her.
Anyway as you said yourself, dating is a numbers games and hence, I guess I’ll have to keep on trying until I find the good one.

[shalie]

Thank you a lot for these insights… I am actually very thankful for the advices because I do not have a lot of experience with dating and I do not know how to decode guys. The few guys I have been seeing in the past were charmers, sweet-talkers who actually didn’t really care. I was thinking that if I dated this new guy who seems to be pretty introverted and inexperienced in relationships then things would be different. But he doesn’t seem to care at all either (still doesn’t call me, and ignores me when I’m online). He might have said that he is interested in me, but as in the book “He’s just not that into you”, a guy might say something but his behaviour tells a whole different story.
I am quite discouraged right now… there are plenty of fishes in the see but I don’t seem to be able to catch any.

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