RomanticMan

[RomanticMan]

I’m going to be straight up with you. It doesn’t sound healthy.

Let’s say he isn’t doing anything wrong (best case scenario), this sort of thing isn’t conducive to a long and healthy relationship. The depth of their relationship “may” only be platonic, but it sounds very deep regardless.

I’m a guy, and I can’t imagine trying to have a serious relationship with a woman while entertaining a close friend who calls me all the time and the bad habits with men that you mentioned.

Like I said, it doesn’t sound healthy. And maybe you should let him know that you’re growing uncomfortable with it. But, it’s your call…

Hope this helps.

[RomanticMan]

You should definitely give the guy a shot. I mean, what’s the best that can happen? 😉

Speaking from personal experience, I know what it’s like to date someone while being unemployed. It’s isn’t easy for men, especially if we find someone we’re really interested in. But if you really want to be helpful, continue to be an asset to him rather than an expense. Men are more than willing to enter a relationship with a woman who adds ridiculous amounts of value to their life.

Hope this helps.

[RomanticMan]

To be honest, usually when men make up their minds about a relationship it can be final. And you did mention that he was already “slipping away”. Could he have been bored with the relationship? Could things have gotten stale? Or was it another woman? These things are important to consider.

One of the best ways to get someone back is actually by enjoying your life and bettering yourself. That same insecurity and jealous might have driven him away, slowly. Work on becoming more secure with yourself as a woman, completely. Men cannot help but be drawn to a woman who is full of life, grace, self-love, and passion.

I hope that helps a bit.

[RomanticMan]

Hey arejay,

Thought I don’t know the full extent of your situation or what happened, I will say that it sounds as if you must work to regain her trust again. You should definately take it slow with her while rebuilding her trust. And if you want to get her to talk, show her that you care and try to bring up good memories of you two in the past.

Hope this helps.

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