YannaJLay

[YannaJLay]

OH BOY! I had that and still do.
I am married. but met this guy before I met my husband…
And he was playing the ‘hot and cold’ game with me, and it makes things harder when I am MILES away.
GOD knows if he was serious…
He is stil asking to meet up when I am over at where he is…
And I have kept my distance, with due respect to my marriage. Though I must say I fancied him big time.
But a tease is not worth the risk if he does not come clean with his intent.
Thats how I think, to keep me sane lol. 🙄
Hope ur feeling ok now. Best of luck.

[YannaJLay]

I met a few before I marry…
Each of them seemed potential till something turn up somehow…be it fear of commitment, insecure, player…u name it! And after all the ups and downs, left and right…you would think I end up with the man of my dreams.
NOT SURE about that!
I chose to be with him cus I want to believe he is the RIGHT one.
Prior to marriage, he made me believe he is the one who can take care and look after me because he loves me. Of course, married life would bring out other things in the relationship you cannot foresee before u sign the paper that made me doubt I made the right choice.
SURELY I DESERVE BETTER, I did think.
But I DID make the choice. I hope destiny has a part to play while I did.
Now its just unveiling the uglies, and in time I hope to see its beauty. Finger crossed.

[YannaJLay]

I am so sorry for you when I read your case.
Its like you let your heart take over your mind and then things seem to get messed up.
I am no expert so I am in no position to dispense advice.
But if this comes from a friend I would tell him to move on.
Surely if you can meeting someone by accident, chances are you will meet more wonderful people on the way.
As much as I feel bad for you, I also think you seem to bask yourself in shroud of self-pity. THere is no need to.
Go out and see…the world still runs, the sun still shines; nothing stops just cus of one mistake.
What went wrong is past now. Life is for living and you should be turning a new page now.
Whatever’s done, get over it.
Mistakes that you made, don’t do it again.
If living alone is not what you want, change it.
Wishing u best of luck.

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