My question wasn’t whether or not he wants to be my boyfriend, I know he wants to be my boyfriend. He would explicitly told me if he didn’t want to, we have been dating for a few years. My question was more along the lines, of in person he seems to want me physically, sexually, but over the phone he was kidding around and he said he wanted me in a joking way, since he said this, it made me feel like he doesn’t want me physically anymore, so am I right in this thinking? Should I have gotten mad at him? Yes he does make an effort to see me a huge one, that is one reason I love him.