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TLYN
ParticipantHi April, I will be getting your book, so I hopefully don’t have to go through this again. I haven’t thrown in the towel yet. “The Guy” was out of town this weekend and I don’t know when he was getting back. I did call him Thursday to wish him a good weekend. He said he was glad I called, asked how my week was and said he would call when he got back, again it is only Monday. I’m not concerned with today or tomorrow, but this…if I don’t hear from him by Thursday, I think it would be safe to say that he clearly changed his mind about dating me, if this happens, I will want confirmation that he is no longer interested. Should I call him and bring up the obvious change between us, or should I call and act like nothing is wrong and see if he brings it up himself? I just know myself, I will need “closure”. Part of my calling on Thursday was to see if he would say something then, but he didn’t go anywhere near that topic.
Thank you for your wisdom!
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TLYN
ParticipantApril! Thank you so much! I couldn’t agree with you more on the “he knows what he’s doing”. I just get nervous because I haven’t really gone on “dates” with the guys I’ve seen recently. It’s so sad to refer to it as old fashioned dating, but most guys, and girls, don’t know how to date anymore! Everything is so casual and people just rush into things, by this I mean the hanging out at each others place, which takes the romance out of getting to know each other. I so look forward to seeing him on dates. I didn’t think I would feel this way so soon about him after a bad relationship I went through a few months ago. He’s the first guy in a long time that genuinely adds to the happiness in my life. I am seeing a couple other guys, but they were out of town all last week so I didn’t have a deistraction to take my mind off of the one I really like! I promise to do my best and not freak out. Patience is definitely not my virtue, but I will do the breathing exercise and focus my nervous energy elsewhere.
Again, thank you so much! And thank you “Vic” too!
TLYN
ParticipantHi Steve, Thank you so much for replying, it is awesome to get a guys side of things! I know I am making a big deal out of nothing, but it is just so refreshing to have real feelings for a real person for a change. By real, I mean we didn’t meet online.
I too look forward to Aprils response, but I really appreciate yours as well!
Best wishes to you and your relationship!
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