If April's fine advice hasn't convinced you, at least talk to a doctor. And stop being so insecure... just come straight out with it exactly like you typed here. They are NOT going to be surprised by what you say anymore than a mechanic would be surprised that you tell them your car is making an "ab...

Reading your post gave me shivers. Your situation is sadly not AS unusual as you may think it is. I know, because I was exactly like you at one point... I was always an awkward youngster but I was a late bloomer. I didn't lose my virginity until my twenties also, and I know now that I'm not the only...