I posted a while back about a girl I was pursuing with a lot of uncertainty. This past weekend she came with me for a weekend music festival that all my family camps out at annually. Thursday through Sunday. She made a big effort to get to know all my family and I could tell she fell in love with th...

Well to update she had reached out to me and we made plans for a date. Then a few days later she tells me she spent the previous night in the hospital. Somebody had roofied her at a Kentucky Derby party. She was really upset as she had only a month or so again been molested in her sleep by her roomm...

Well doesn't look good. I let 3 days go with no contact then today briefly apologized for "overwhelming" her and explained why. I said that because she opened up saying she was falling for me and knowing she was going through tough personal stuff, I tried too hard to show my interest in her was genu...

Thanks for the reply April. I know you can't see the future or speak for a girl, but you are an expert who sees scenarios like this all the time. Do you see a high chance of the "fix" succeeding or likely a lost cause?

Hi April, First, thank you for taking the time here. I'll try to be as concise as possible to paint the picture of where I'm at with this girl. If it matters, I'm 30 and she's 25. Neither have been married or have kids. I've had good jobs since I graduated college, have owned a home since right out ...