This isn't infidelity -- it's you wanting a commitment from a woman who is not ready for a commitment. ;) She's only been divorced for one year now, so she's playing the field. And she's not completely done with her ex-husband, since it sounds like she's still involved with him as well, as their mar...

Anytime you're in a new relationship, there's a chance that things won't work out -- and since you've only been dating for a few months, it could be that she just doesn't feel that you're someone she wants to continue dating. You may not be doing anything wrong -- it's just not a match. Possibly. Th...

I know you really like him, but if you've dated someone for 18 months, and they're not sure about you or about the relationship -- there's probably not a chance for a solid future together. In addition, he left when you got sick, which doesn't show a lot of commitment to you. It sounds like you're b...

It sounds like you're both unhappy with the structure of the relationship. You don't like the fact that she's out at bars, possibly flirting and maybe even hooking up, dating or meeting someone new. You also don't like the fact that you can't protect her if something untoward happens to her, because...

The reason you haven't given your boyfriend a straight answer is because you know the right answer is going to disappoint him. :o Since you're a junior in college and your parents have invested in your education, it would be a pretty dumb idea to drop out when you're almost 75% finished, unless ther...

He's definitely interested in you and your company, but he's a lazy dater. The good and bad news is that the ball is really in your court. You have to change your behavior in order to get him to change his. Here are a few ways you can do that. Give him something to chase. If you're there and respons...

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"Fixing" relationships is often tricky business because what one person think is a fixed relationship may not seem like a fix at all to the other person. When there's a breakup involved, it's best to get the most closure you can, and then to shift your focus towards your future, and away from your p...

Thanks for sending your photo -- clearly you are very beautiful..... but men don't always go for the most beautiful woman in the room. ;) They go for the one who makes them feel the way they want to feel. And his initial connection with you was a whirlwind of sexy romance. That's what he liked about...

If you want him back, then flirt with him. 8-) Don't have any heavy talks about feelings. Instead, let him know you want to see him -- and not for dinner and a movie, but for more of what brought you together in the first place. ;) He's looking for sex in a whirlwind, so if you want him back, offer ...