I'm going to cut to the chase and I'm going to be very blunt, because you need to WAKE UP!
You said, "My problem is that I cannot get over what happened."
Well, you shouldn't get over it! What you should do is ask yourself why you want to be with someone who is a chronic, flagrant liar and perpetual cheat. Why on earth would you think that he would not do the exact same thing to you as he did to all of these other women? Oh wait, he did!!!
Frankly, you are either delusional or you are a masochist. You know exactly who and what this guy is. Acknowledge and accept it!
You say, "I want to believe him but it is so hard."
Oh, you think?!!
You say, "I am so scared that he is going to do the same thing to me that he has done to ever other girl."
NEWS BULLETIN: He already has!
You say, "When I get married, I want to be in it for life and believe in faithfulness. I don
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