My wife's past
Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2012 9:54 pm
I've been married for a year and I am having an issue with my wife's sexual past. She is 33, I'm 45. We dated for a couple of months before having sex. She told me that she needed to get to know someone before having sex with them, that she didn't believe in one night stands and that she hadn't been with that many men.
As it turns out she has been with many men. She started having sex at 14 and has been active ever since. What bothers me most is that she seems proud of her sexual past and talks about her past when she is angry with me. She says things like "I fucked a lot when I was young", "I fucked everywhere I went" (she's travelled extensively), and "I fucked the best of the best". She has also mentioned specific guys that "she's fucked" (her words) and has even shown pictures. As it turns out she was a wild child and in her 20's was into clubbing and the party scene. She told me some specific stories and has since retracted some of them so I don't know what to believe.
After hearing her talk about her past I think of her as a slut. Also, I don't trust that she will be loyal to me. I've had my own encounters but for some reason her past and most of all the way that she talks about it both me. I can't seem to let it go.
As it turns out she has been with many men. She started having sex at 14 and has been active ever since. What bothers me most is that she seems proud of her sexual past and talks about her past when she is angry with me. She says things like "I fucked a lot when I was young", "I fucked everywhere I went" (she's travelled extensively), and "I fucked the best of the best". She has also mentioned specific guys that "she's fucked" (her words) and has even shown pictures. As it turns out she was a wild child and in her 20's was into clubbing and the party scene. She told me some specific stories and has since retracted some of them so I don't know what to believe.
After hearing her talk about her past I think of her as a slut. Also, I don't trust that she will be loyal to me. I've had my own encounters but for some reason her past and most of all the way that she talks about it both me. I can't seem to let it go.