I met a German doctor who's never been married and he doesn't have kids. He lied about his age at first.. He moved to my town a year ago and admitted failed attempts to dating co-workers. When we first met he seemed really great, but he refused to let me meet anyone in his life, he didn't consider his coworkers personal friends and had no friends outside of work, his family visited from Germany he said he didn't want me to meet them. He introduced his coworker to them. 8 mos later he's made mean remarks about everything I do -talk, hair, tattoos etc. He yelled at me for texting him too much at work. I'm not normally the jealous type but I was irritable, drinking, depressed and started making irrational accusations. . I considered because he's an Aquarius I'm just pushy. He got me me a gym membership, Hawaii trip, marriage and baby talk,, paid medical bills. I figured just me paranoid. A month ago he starts wanting to only hang every other day and going on weekend trips with coworkers. He never let me take pictures with him and had no Facebook. After fighting so much and feeling deceived/crazy I broke up with him. He threw my stuff over my gate along with a $, he said he didn't want me to think he was a bad guy and asked if I believed him, that he cared, never lied. He mentioned possibly hanging out someday. I know this isn't love. I feel mindf*cked. Can anyone explain what was with the $ -what I should probably expect with this personality type? Is this just how German men act? Was I too pushy? Any advice to avoid this situation again?