I've been seeing a guy for a few months now (November 2016)&3 months ago he said we should take it to the next level&said we should 'start dating and see how things go'.After a while he would hardly text me which i didn't like&would tell me that's just the way he is&that he prefers seeing me in person etc. After I found his tinder account&he Instagram DM'd a girl I knew, he didn't really have much to say about it or seemed that he cared, but still spoke to me. About 1 month ago he stopped slowly asking to see me, however we would still remain in contact and speak,but I could tell he was pulling away. 1 day he said he'd come visit me,&a couple days later he stopped replying to me.A week later I texted him asking for a bag back, but it took him days to reply.A couple weeks later I asked him for some clarification on what's happened between us, he didn't reply.The other day he did ask if I wanted the bag I left at his house back since I've been asking for a while, but we haven't spoken since. I just really want to know what made him change?Why he gradually but suddenly cut me out? Could he have been lying about saying he liked me,wanted to date & see me as a girlfriend, (even told his friend he sees me as a gf soon)?I just feel so confused,I know he wants nothing to do with me&made that v clear,but I just want to know why.He ticked all the boxes for me otherwise, so I would see myself with him in the future,is there any way that we could potentially reconnect in the future when he is ready&out of this player phase?