Hi April, There's a guy that I had a leadership program with last year and we developed a friendship through the program and the latter part of it I started to develop feelings for him and a crush, probably because I felt like there was some chemistry and flirting going on. But we were never around each other outside of a professional environment. A month after it ended, I emailed him to give him (and everyone in the class) my new contact info because I switched jobs. He mentioned that we should get lunch and catch up but that fell through. a month ago I contact him for that lunch (since we were working together on charity tournament) and He seemed excited and the lunch went very well and he told me that he wanted to do it again soon. A couple days later, I texted him saying it was good to see him and we held the convo for a little bit but it didn't go anywhere. I was hoping he would ask me on an actual date, but that never happened. We just had the tournament yesterday and we worked it for about 12 hours and I felt like he was flirting with me and had chemistry. He would make jokes at me, and come over and talk to me any chance he could and made a effort to involve me. I'm just so happy around him and want to continue to progress and make sure he knows I'm interested. I don't want it to seem like I'm chasing him but I want to see him again and even start dating but I'm not sure how to do that since I already felt like I put myself out there by asking him to lunch. Would appreciate your advice!