April,
Thank you so much for the helpful advice. It was simple and very straightforward advice. I don’t feel so confident anymore. Part of me is saying “he’s already gone and you know it” and playing the waiting game will be extremely difficult. I also wanted to add that he has asked me out before. Twice, actually. I don’t know if that makes a difference, but I just didn’t want it to seem that I was constantly demanding a date every week.
I just know the next few things will upset you, but I need to ask anyway.
Why would a simple text asking if hes alright be that harmful? (a text and nothing more after that unless he initiates it)
Maybe something like “I hope all is well with you. get in touch when you get the chance”
What about a phone call? We don’t really talk on the phone, so it’s a bit out of my comfort zone to do so. But it seems more direct, but maybe thats needed?
I guess I’m asking because I want to know now and not later. Mostly because I’m impatient and doubting myself up and down already. There’s less than two weeks left in October, but that seems like a long time for me since it’s been a week already.
Thanks for any help. I don’t want you to think I’m not taking your advice! I really appreciate any that you offer
