[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like you know exactly what you want and exactly what to do — but you’re having trouble moving on. 🙁 Your boyfriend is not Mr. Right. You already know this. He’s in debt and spending the money he does have on alcohol, marijuana and cigarettes. A man who is ready to get married and settle down behaves differently .

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You’re definitely NOT too fussy. I think any woman in your shoes who is looking for a man who wants a commitment would be disappointed with your boyfriend. His behavior will tell you more about him than his words, and I think you know what you’re dealing with.

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter, and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].