You need to stop projecting your problems onto your husband because if you don’t, you WILL create a secondary problem. Your real problem is how you feel about yourself. It’s understandable that you have baby weight to lose. Almost everyone who has a baby still has weight to lose at three months post partum and sometimes up to a year post partum. You’re not alone in this situation, but instead of focusing on that issue and doing something about it, you’re allowing it to get the best of you.
Join a gym and get to working there. If you can’t afford a gym or YMCA membership, start walking, running, swimming or whatever exercise you can get that’s free. Eat healthy, but cut down on caloric sweets and other things that don’t help you — or your baby if you’re breast feeding. Ask your physician for help in coming up with a plan to lose your weight safely and healthfully — and realistically. And don’t forget — good sex can be a real calorie burner! 😎
I hope that helps. Let me know how things go as you focus on YOU and not HIM. You can follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].
