[b]Misscappucino[/b] gave you great advice! Now here’s a little riff on hers: It’s very important to be honest with yourself, but white lies are fine in certain circumstances. 😉 Clearly, you jumped the gun in saying those three little words, but instead of making that mistake into a big issue, just back off and stop saying it. You don’t have to announce that you’re not going to say it any more, or for a while. You don’t have to discuss it. You don’t have to do anything, except EXPRESS your true feelings. [b]If[/b] he asks you why you’re not saying it any more, you can tell him that you got caught up in the moment, and you want to save the L word for a little while longer until things are more intimate. But for now, my advice is to just cool your behavior, but save your words. And no — you’re not doomed! 😀
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