[April Masini, your AskApril]

There are a couple of problems that are keeping you from getting what you want. First of all, you talk a lot about what you want, but you seem to ignore what he wants. He’s been pretty clear that he’s not interested in what you are. And while you say you don’t want anything complicated — you’re actually turning this into something complicated.

My advice is that you change your behavior when it comes to men so you have better outcomes. First of all, don’t ask men out on dates and don’t make the first move. What you’re do is taking away the opportunity for men to do what they love — chase a woman that they want! Also, when you throw yourself at him with sex, he’s going to think he’s got the booby prize, not first prize. Men WANT the woman that they can show off to other men — if they think they’re with a woman who will throw herself at a guy, they’re not going to be as proud. The other thing that you win when you don’t ask a guy out is the opportunity to know how he REALLY feels about you. You won’t feel confused about why he acts one way and then another because if he wants to be with you — he’ll make a date happen! 😉

You should read Think & Date Like A Man for lots of good information on winning the dating game. Here’s the link where you can download it automatically: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. You can also buy it on the websites for Amazon and Barnes & Noble.

I hope this helps. Let me know how it goes, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀