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Re: Big Crush on ex boss

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libra1963
Member #14,537

Hi April

Something very strange happened to me on Thursday. I was out visiting a friend who lives near where I work. That evening I was getting on to a bus and saw someone in a tracksuit running towards the bus. They missed it. It was my ex boss!

When we got to the tube station I did not intentially hang around to see him, I just kept walking. I knew he was on the bus directly behind me that had just pulled in. I stalled a bit in order to allow him to catch up with me but I did not turn around so it was not obvious I had seen him. Next thing I knew we were both at the ticket office and he rushed pass me, ran up the stairs at speed and ran to the furthest carriage away from me. The station was not very crowded, it was literally me and him on the platform. I went into his carriage and did not look at him and kept my head in a newspaper and then got off before him. It was so obvious as the train was not about to depart and it was not as if there would not be another train for a while. There are trains every few minutes, so I di not understand why he ran liike that and I do think it was due to me!!

I actually felt quite offended by his behaviour. He could have acknowledged me and said something. I feel he was shocked to see me. I had my hair straighten out below shoulder length and dressed nicely. He had just worked out in the gym and not wearing his usual smart suit (he is always immaculately dressed).

What do you think? when I see him again, I plan to let him know that I did see him and that he hurt me.

By the way, I have recently found out that he has signed up for the mentoring training that I suggested to him for December. He has decided to do a two day residential that I suggested and I feel flattered. I am not teaching at the moment and I was a little concerned that he would not be able to mentor me but apparently we can still work together despite that. He has not yet told me he has signed up. Wonder what the future holds.

In relaton to my ex, he is still trying to get into my bed, I dont want him using me any more. My communication with him has become clearer and clearer.

I will keep updating you.

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