[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you have a flashing yellow light in one area of your relationship after one year of dating, pay attention to it and really decide if this is going to be a problem in the future or not. You’ll have a better idea of things after they stop living together in August and there’s a greater opportunity to shed this third wheel. If he doesn’t shed her, re-examine the relationship, if he does, continue to decide if he’s the one or not.