I should have said this on my last post. He says he won’t get a vasectomy because what if, one day, at some point in the future he changes his mind and wants kids. Also since then he has stopped talking to this girl all together after I talked to him about my concerns and we are sleeping together, although still not often. I do want to make it work for my son but he just can be so hot and cold and changing his mind all the time. He actually said one day we should name our next kid so and so. If this isn’t mixed signals I don’t know what is.
I guess we’ll see what happens. I am trying though. Way more than I would with anyone else because he is my sons father. Is a relationship supposed to be like this?
Candiqueen