Look for birth control that is safe and full proof. There are all kinds of birth control that are highly effective. And try looking for another doctor because yours gave you a suspicious piece of information. In fact, the reason men and women have vasectomies or their tubes tied is often simply because they don’t want to have any more children. There doesn’t have to be a “medical reason” or an emergency for the procedure.
Good luck with the support group. It will be good to be able to talk to other women in the same situation that you’re in. You’ll feel a lot better about things and get some good advice that’s specific to your relationship. 😀
April Masini, your AskApril