[April Masini, your AskApril]

If he broke up with you after dating for three years because he had family stress in his life, one month may not have resolved that issue for him. Do you think that the family stress is the real reason he broke up with you — or was that an excuse and the reason was something else?

You can let him know you’re thinking of him by sending a heartfelt, but pressure-free e-mail or phone call, but don’t YOU make the first move. If he wants to get back together with you, he knows how to reach you and if he doesn’t, I don’t want to see you wasting time with someone who isn’t really going to be your Mr. Right.

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