[April Masini, your AskApril]

People do get over infidelities but it takes hard work and brutal honesty. The best thing you can do is to talk to her — a lot — and keep talking to her. Find out why she cheated on you. Is there something going on in your relationship that isn’t working for her? Is she dishonest with you about other things? For future, it helps a lot when you tell me the ages of everyone involved.

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