Thank you for the advice it does make a lot of sense, but now I’m just frustrated b/c I told him this week that I’m now focusing on my career and I have been training a lot for the academy that I dont want to lose focus just for a boy. Ive realized that I was focusing on the wrong thing and that I wasnt ready for a relationship either. However now he text messages me that he misses me and wants to hang out with me and to “save a place in my heart for him, and not to fall for any other guys.”I dont know what else to tell him and I feel bad cutting him out of my life because ive known him so long but I’m just frustrated because when I told him I am glad we can be friends, he was so offended it was like the worse possible thing I have ever said to him. Most people would think he was using me for sex but we’ve only kissed, so I just dont know why he is doing this to me:/
lanaA