Read your own post, I got the impression you are stupid for various reasons.
Got married for support? The guy knows it and you wonder why your relationship with him is in the crapper?
You need kicked to the curb, he’s been too nice to you and made a huge mistake, his move to take the money is understandable, you come across as a gold digger and extremely flaky.
Serious relationship over X-Box live and don’t even have a picture? You making this stuff up?
WAKE UP CALL delivered.
Sorry to be so harsh, but seems warranted in this case, and I won’t be surprised if April deletes this.
Best of luck with the new man you are running off with… really looks like you should since you both have totally blown your marriage to bits and you need SUPPORT.