cold feet, yes, I think so.
I don’t know if it’s a bad idea or not. In lesbian terms, waiting 7 months to move in is a long time! 🙂 lol. And it is like marriage in our world. Those 7 weeks we spent together, we were living together. She stayed with me for three weeks, me with her for a month. When I was at her place, there were some issues but mostly because of the neighborhood she lived in. She loves where I live. Practically, there is not much that can be done if we want to stay together but move. She is 2500 miles away, we have no money to see each other more than say twice a year and I get very ill flying not to mention there is no way I could move to where she is with my job and her living in the middle of nowhere (I mean nowhere!). She is also moving out here to get a job and start a new life in a bigger city; she hates where she is. I suppose she could get her own place here but, again, $$$. Well…thanks everyone for the advice. I think it is cold feet and not anything else like not loving her enough or being interested in someone else or something. I’ll just see what we can do. Maybe she’ll move in until she finds a job and then if we need to have our own places, but that would be difficult to go backwards. Anyway, I figure if she hasn’t begun packing in a week or two maybe she has cold feet too and then, well, plan B. Cry a lot. I truly do love her a lot and both of our hearts would be broken I think if it doesn’t work.
peace!
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