[April Masini, your AskApril]

Your confusion with a long time friend is fueled because you are looking for a confusing relationship! You’re living with your most recent ex-boyfriend, but you’re texting your less recent ex-hook up and friend because you don’t want a relationship, but you just want “his company”. 😯

First of all, you can’t really expect any normal guy to want to be involved with you if you’re living with your ex-boyfriend. So move out and get your own place or a female roommate situation. You’ll be a lot more attractive to men that way! 🙂

Second of all, know that if he isn’t texting you back, he’s not that interested. I know you want what you want, but you’ve put yourself in a situation that doesn’t make you attractive to a man who wants a girlfriend (you’re living with a man already!) or a man who wants a hook up (you’re living with a man alread! — did I just say that?? 😆 ). Most guys aren’t interested in just being friends — and your history with this guy you have your eye on was sexual in spite of everything else. He wants more than just friendship and he isn’t comfortable pursuing you in your current situation.

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and consider getting my book called Think & Date Like A Man that I’ve written for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right. It will help you cut through confusion quickly. You can get it at Barnes & Noble, Amazon or right here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

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