[April Masini, your AskApril]

No. I don’t think it will work. Sorry. 😳 You have a history of behaving chaotically and there’s no evidence that will change.

You’ve chosen someone who’s got a child with another woman, as well as a marriage and a home. Again. It’s going to be complicated for him to disengage with his wife and child and his possessions. Clearly he’s confused, and your demanding an ultimatum is not going to help in the long run. It sounds like you’re just flitting from relationship to relationship without any real meaning. Focus on raising your child in a stable home and let your dating life flourish from that basis.

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