Next!
It sounds like you are very clear that this date was rotten. Why would you put yourself through another date with a guy who can’t even show up dressed nicely? It’s one thing to be nervous on a date and fumble through sentences or spill a drink, but this guy is not in your league.
Remember: You are the prize. He gets to chase and impress you. And if he can’t or doesn’t…next!
Dating is a numbers game, and the more you date, the more likely you are to meet someone who, in your case, shows up for a date looking and smelling so great, he makes you feel special and wonderful, goes out of his way to make sure you are having a great time on the date, and is appreciative and generous because he wants you so much, and knows you’re so valuable, that he’d do what it takes to make you happy.
And send the dud date a copy of my book, Romantic Date Ideas, so maybe he can get a clue.
