[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m sorry, but I think you have to move on just as she is doing. Learn from the mistake you made and take your new knowledge with you into the next relationship you have.

You’ve already made it more than clear that you want her back, and her behavior is speaking volumes. I know you are trying to hold onto any shred of hope, but do yourself a favor and step back to see the bigger picture. After four years it’s hard to move on and sometimes it takes steps over time to delete friends from Facebook, etc. But she has clearly rebuffed your attempts at reconciliation and you’d be wise to accept the break up, take your pain straight up, and get over this broken heart so you can find love again, elsewhere.

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